The key to solving your relationship problems is communication. Without good communication you will not solve anything, you will only make it worse. Over the years of divorce, I have developed a reliable communication system to help you solve your problems. Each system has been tested hundreds of times in its actual state. If you take it in the described process, it will help you find a good solution to your real problem.
Relations between parents and children are the basis of war. Soldier man / woman tied. When we expect to tell ourselves that what we want is to live happily ever after, society makes us feel inadequate and ashamed of ourselves and deprive us of our love as we know how to say to ourselves as we seek. . Our parents taught us to hate ourselves when we hate ourselves.
The first level is the level at which psychotherapy is treated (unfortunately, the damage has been caused). Our parents were so young when we were young - that their gods were terrible - that we were afraid to confess, or to remember ourselves, to be angry with them or any other education where they did not believe - which was contrary to their expectations.
A happy marriage is known (beyond the ten-year period, where there may be more or less to this waiting style. Of course there are, but not many. The commitment to a happy marriage is unique and has its own spirit.